That little minx Lisa at http://frenchkilt.blogspot.com/ aka Ma'dame French or Taylor Diggle or just French has served me with a conquest of values and non-values to share. Here are mine. Isn't this a pretty blogger emblem...
There are a few minor details like RULES...blah, so here they are: *Mention the blog that gave you the reward and comment on their blog to let them know that you have posted their award. You also have to list 6 things you VALUE and 6 things you Don't VALUE. Lastly, you have to pass the award onto 6 other friends! So here it goes...*
6 things that I Value:
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1. Faith
2. The man who has loved me in spite of my ornery self for the past 40 years..believe me, I've given him plenty of reasons to leave me over the years and yet he still LOVES me...
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3. The meaning to our lives...my grandson Evan who is all we have left to treasure from our only child Chad killed in an auto accident the morning of his 34 th birthday in 2000.
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4. My precious "adopted" sisters and family from my former husband's family who we may not share blood with, but we share our hearts!
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5.My home...that is all I've ever wanted in life as far back as I can remember since my mother abandoned me at age 8 and my 2 brothers and my dad to be with the " man of her dreams" who later dumped her for another...
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6. And last but not least, I value the friendships I have made through blogging...it has meant so much to me to learn about all of the lovely ladies I've visited with in cyberspace...XOXOXO to you all!
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Six thing's that I DO NOT VALUE:
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1. Sexual abuse of children...yes, I've been there ... nuf' sed
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2.Hypocrisy
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3.Self-entitlement
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Thievery
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Obnoxious boors
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Snobbery
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* Now, my 6 I'd like to serve are in no particular order are:
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http://casa-dolce-casa.blogspot.com/ oops, you have been served again!
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Okay girls have fun and divulge all of your "nasty" little secrets!
32 comments:
loved your "wine and cheese"..you are some photographer!and quite a shopper, too!
keep 'em coming!
"M"
Bo~~I had no idea about your son I am truly sincere when I say I can't imagine~~ my heart truly goes out to you... I lost my only sibling when I was 5 have watched what my parents have gone through can't imagine....
Ok now before I get choked up I did however Love your honest replies about your silly self and just reminds me why I love the crap outta ya! French;)
I'm so sorry to hear about your son! That's just so sad. Also, hearing about your Mom, well, that had to be the hardest thing for a child to deal with... my heart goes out to you.
Bo...I've ALWAYS admired your generous spirit and knew you were a very special person; but now having read some of the unthinkable tragedies/experiences you've had, I feel honored to know you...even if it's just via blogland! I truly admire your strength and I just have a feeling you possess a strong faith that is guiding you through these perilous days! Thanks for sharing a little of who you are...makes us admire and appreciate you all the more! Love,
Susan
My dearest Bo... I am so sorry to hear about the loss your son... Just the thought of it pained me so much...and then about your mom... You really have gone through tough times I can't even imagine.. my heart goes out to you... I loved you before and this makes me feel even closer to you now... Glad about you having such a wonderful husband and home... we need that special love..
I am so glad we are bloggin' buddies...
Hugs & Love,
Donna
Bo, dear friend, you are a pillar of strenght. I shared my sadness with you when you told me about the loss of your son and I couldn't stop thinking how you went on with your life with still so much love in your heart for life and other people. Now, reading that was only one of your crosses to bear, I'm at a loss for words. I will say you should be so proud of yourself, that you have the love, strenght,and spirit that you are so willing to share with all of us.
Lots of Love to you,
Chris
Bo you deserve a million awards you are such a special lady and if I went around the world a hundred times I would always "pop in" to see if you were okay, I am so honored you gave me this award, love ya, big hugs, Kathy xoxo.
Hi Bo...I left you a note on my blog this morning....I am honored to be chosen by you!!! Thanks for the award. I was up until 2:30 trying to finish my "task", and my wireless router kept going down before I could leave you a comment, so I thought I'd stop by this morning, and I see you were up either really late or really early. Either way, I am SO sorry about the abuse, your mom (or lack of) and your son! I just don't think there would be anything more devastating than losing a child....I know it must be painful even still...every day. I have a friend whose dad lives in the same town as her, but he never calls her or bothers to see his grandchildren. Sometimes, it's hard to understand why people like that are parents when others wish they still were. I hope the rest of your life will be good! Have a good weekend...
And here's a big, SUPER-SIZED HUG...ALL THE WAY FROM NC cuz I just think you need one today!
OM goodness...I just realized your son & I would have been the same age....
Bo, your reveal game was so heart rending. My sister lost a daughter at 27 because of a bad doctor. She goes forward with her life but losing a child and your only one is beyond my sense of reasoning. Thank God for your grandson. My great niece that just got married is one of the three children she left when she died and those children have been affected by that loss so much. Melissa was five at the time. Her wedding was so special because of the loss of her mom. I guess you could liken your mom leaving to dying in a way. I am sure your faith has been a great help to you. It was to my sister.
Ok, you tagged me and I am not nearly as interesting as you but I will do my best.
Love...Jeanne
Morning girl...I loved find out out more about the beautiful you behind the name...I could not ever imagine your loss and pain..but I am humbled by your love for life and the strong will you have to overcome and stand strong...great post sweetie...have a beautiful weekend!
Thank you Bo!
Your lists are amazing!
Hi Bo! Great values, they really show off your heart of GOLD. I know you were looking for those canisters in my kitchen but I'm going to use them in my den to replace the pumpkins. I think I will fill them with Christmas ornaments of some sort. So I chose use the Cloches in the kitchen. Bo I hope you have a wonderful weekend, it's raining in my neighborhood, I have opened the windows and everything is so cool and peaceful. I'm loving it! Deb
Bo,
You brought me to a few tears with your brave disclosures here. And gained even more of my respect and admiration for your openness. I usually shy away from this lists so thanks for being so generous with your history. You are a lovely lady and that husband of yours knows it!
Lisa & Alfie
An award so well deserved. I love visiting your blog everyday to see what you're up to. I'm so sorry about your son...I have no idea how anyone deals with that. I'm also sorry that you had to deal with things as a child...that no child should EVER have to deal with!! You are a VERY strong and courageous lady!!! There were a couple blogs on your list I haven't been to...I'll have to check em out. Have a glorious day!
Good morning, Bo! Thanks for popping in to see me!
Be a sweetie,
Shelia ;)
I'm so very sorry to read about your son's death. I can't imagine the grief. You're a brave lady and it's an honor to know you. Plus your picture is just so darn cute! Thank you for passing the award on to me. You're a genuine sweetheart.
Hugs,
Penny
Bo - thanks for sharing. You really touched my heart. From the first time that I visited you I knew that you were special.
Hugs,
Sweetie
Oh no Bo! I hope it's not me! LOL!!!
Just wanted to let you know I responded to your award you were so kind to give to me, better late than never, huh?
Hugs,
Chris
Hi Bo :)
Congratulations on your award! Very honest meme. I'm so sorry about your son, but I'm glad you have his child to enjoy.
hugs,
rue
Oh Sweet Bo! I am so sorry to hear about your Son! I can relate. My family suffered the "sudden death" of my Sister's only Son just two short years ago. My heart goes out to you!
You are one special lady Bo!! :) I admire your strength!
PS. Let me know how those wings turn out!
xoxoxoxoxo
Donna
I realize I don't know you well, but I want to tell you how touched I am by your words. I am a mother of an only child, and I know what a treasure our children are. I am so glad God has gifted you with your grandchild.
We all could learn the value of our faith, our friends and our family from you. You are a kind and wise woman.
Hi Bo! I, too, am sorry for the loss of your son and all the hurts you've had to endure. But I see 'fatih' is number one and so your faith in God I know is strong and He gets us through it all, doesn't he? I'm so glad you're happy now and I'm thrilled to count you as my Blogging Friend!
Be a sweetie,
Shelia ;)
Good morning Bo, I did not visit much yesterday as I was fighting a sinus thing, but I am much better today. I will do the meme this week. Your comments always give me a smile and I appreciate your humor too. Thank you for being a faithful friend in the blogging world. Have a splendid Sunday.
Hugs...Jeanne
That was a very touching list...my heart goes out to you.
Buffie
It's amazing how some go through so much yet maintain a sweet and generous heart. That is you, my friend. It's easy to love life when you have only known its kindness. Quite another to know its sadness and love it with kindness.
Morning, Bo! thanks for popping in to see me and I'm hoping you're going to have a beautiful week!
Be a sweetie,
Shelia ;)
Bo...you are in so much trouble!! I read your sweet comment to my hubby cuz it made me laugh and feel so good...then I realized my mistake...I think "noodle dome" is gonna be my new nickname for awhile!
Hi sweet lady... I truly admire you... life have to have a meaning.... thanks God He has provide us with that.... right?
Love ya
cielo
Bo, I have had a big day and I have not been able to visit all day. I am probably going to do the meme on Weds. Thank you for your birthday greeting and you are right I wasn't going to mention it. Jan let the cat out of the bag. I am glad you enjoyed my post today. I loved writing it. My aunt is a cutie.
Hugs...Jeanne
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